escaping mundanity & normalcy..

[good spirit]

have been celebrating so many birthdays
recently.. more to come.. this is also one of
those day where most of us gather together
to meet up.. feel so happy to see so many
of us talking, laughing and eating together..
i just hope for more of such gatherings..

was attached to Selarang Camp (near Changi)
last couple of days.. still will be going over
there for the next few days.. a brand new
working environment.. due to limited work
space.. we have to work under the sun..
when i got home.. my mum thought i went
to beach for the whole day.. as i'm having
slight sunburn on my face.. numb....

one of my friend just broke of with his
girlfriend of seven years.. yes.. that's
seven freaking long years.. but just this
freaking sentence, "my priority has changed"
made by the girl.. ended the relationship..
well.. a breakup doesn't initiate all out of
a sudden.. it is already in the making for
quite some time.. we are really at lost when
he cried.. i can understand his feeling..
seven years of r/s.. the efforts that he had
put in.. the number of sacrifices he had made..
all went unappreciated.. but something that
i find it's good out from this situation is.. at
least the whole r/s is pull out now.. instead
of being drag on.. now, when he is still young..
he still have plenty of opportunity ahead..
a great guy like him.. shouldn't have any problem
finding another girl.. one who can appreciate or
reciprocate his good nature..

hope he will not be disillusion the meaning of
Love by this event.. what is the definition of it???
not everyone will come out with the same answer..
everyone will have their own point of view.. there
will be no definite word that be use to describe it
that can be accept as a fact for everyone..

as for my view? i think..
Love is a feeling between 2 human being.. the
feeling that nothing in this world can replace..
touched by even the simplest thing he/she will
do for you.. something that can carry on glowing
in the heart of two person.. till death do us part..

but when come to fairytales ending..
Tian Chang Di Jiu.. Hai Ku Shi Lan..
meaning everlasting.. till end of the world
type of relationship.. it's really scarce to find
it in current society.. a society that has turn
the paces of life so fast.. change the concept
of most people to be materialistic.. hardly there
will be one.. i say "hardly".. not none.. there will
still be cases where such Love exists..

really hope he can overcome this soon.. not
affecting his studies.. exam drawing near..
need to draw a line between this two thing..
never let studies affected by it.. affecting it
will only causes regrets in the future.. the last
thing in a failed relationship is to create hatred..

that's all.. hopefully he will get over it quickly..
afterall.. there is still a group of friends always
behind him.. people who will be there to share
his joys and woes.. that's what friends are for..
ain't i right?? :)

TaKe CaRE!!

walkingtarts awake and ranted on 3/21/2004 11:34:00 PM

hmm..